I’ve personally been through some very rocky relationships in my past – most with women who were sure they loved me but actually did not know the first thing about love. Me, I believe I have an idea of what love is, but most importantly – I do know when I love someone wholeheartedly or if I’m just putting on a show. Sadly for me, I have also had my run with women who have put on shows. Honestly, I have never not wanted to be in a relationship with the person I chose to take the leap with. Far too many times do I see women who just want to be in love and not actually caring who it is they’re in love with. That’s what I call lusting for love. Those are some of the toughest relationships to deal with because those type of people are hard to crack and will do anything to keep their lust for love fed. It is a dangerous game once a partner sees that their lover is just with them because they fear being lonely, instead of naturally feeling like they belong with you.
Last night was a prime example of how a person can be very misleading with love. I will not go into details but a female whom a very good friend was dating showed her boyfriend that she was with him for all the wrong reasons. Once he caught wind of who she truly was, she did everything in her power to keep things going – to keep herself happy and in love, regardless of how hurt my friend was about the situation. Girls who just want to be with someone for the ride aren’t easy to break as I said before. You have to notice the little things they do to crack their code. These type people are usually party going, materialistic type of people whom have a hard time staying in one place too long. Watch out for these people on your journey to the promise land of love, because you won’t see them coming. Be aware.
We can only reach new heights by getting over our lowest points. There are ups without downs. Embrace the hard times and use them to elevate yourself to a higher plateau. Our emotions entrap us at times, keeping us grounded. It is normal to feel sad during hard times but it is also possible to feel happy during sad times if you allow the joy to overcome that sorrow within you. I am happy at the moment, but that doesn’t mean I can’t feel sadness at any moment. You control your emotions. If you feel sad, it is because you allow yourself to feel that way. Stop the sadness and allow yourself to feel happiness when you need it the most. If all else fails, listen to the song in the link – Pharrell Williams – Happy
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You’re the same as me; you make mistakes just as I do. The only difference is that I own up to my mistakes. I don’t avoid the doubt casted upon me because of the decisions I’ve made. I am a man who owns up to everything. I deal with my problems because I made those problems. There’s no easy way out. Casting the pain onto others, or ignoring your faults will only lead to confusion. Man up, step up and take ownership of your emotions. Don’t be something you’re not. That’s how you end up lost. Be you, be honest, and don’t avoid the pain. The pain helps us grow. It helps us understand how to be humans, not robots. We’re either controlled by our emotions or we learn to control our emotions. We shall no hide in the shade when the sun is burning up the ground beneath us. Stand there and fight the heat at all costs. If you shall burn than at least you’ll burn with pride – knowing you didn’t run away from anything. You stood there like a human being who knows right from wrong. You didn’t cower away from anything. That makes you a man. That’s what makes you human.
Regardless of how you spent the every second of your life before today, feel free to change everything and anything you feel necessary. Don’t hold yourself back, trying to be someone everyone else is used to. People may say you’ve changed, but change is for the better sometimes. Do whatever you need to do to get your life straight. Put yourself in place to do things differently, hopefully opening your mind up to new things and new ways to go about living life. Don’t feel the need to always be the same. You won’t be losing yourself with change. You’ll be finding a part of your that you didn’t know was there. You have to change to grow, so go for it. It is 2014 and most of us need something new. New goals, new people in our lives, new stories; all while doing away with old and tiring habits. A change is needed and we need to change now, before we become too familiar with those olds ways. Search for something different, be someone new, and you never know what new opportunities will arise.
A slighter of light crept thought the dark
Giving way to hope
I was guided in spirit, led by the heart
Still, I knew another battle would begin
The fight within was just a start
I’m deep and the light shines brighter than ever
I keep digging through the pain
Because that light won’t be shining forever
I can feel your love traveling through my veins,
The feeling captivates my soul and takes away my pain;
You make the sun shine through the dark clouds above the rain,
You weather my emotional storm, making me feel reborn;
When you’re gone, the thunder will rumble loudly,
When you leave, I will stay right here where you found me;
Tornado or shine, rain or snow – somehow, someway, our love will grow